The biggest goodbye

You may have already heard by now, if we’re friends or if you follow me on Twitter, that my husband Dave was killed in a motorcycle accident last Saturday, March 6th, in Pitt Meadows. He was just 36 years old.

I have been overwhelmed by the love and support I’ve received from thousands of people – friends, family, my church, my colleagues, the Vancouver social media community, the ladies in the Just Mommies January 2010 Playroom and friends of friends who have started prayer chains for me at their churches. I have received daily meals, financial contributions, countless offers for babysitting, house cleaning, company and I literally have thousands of people praying for me and my two boys. I can’t thank you all enough for your kindness and support at this incredibly difficult time.

Please join me to celebrate Dave’s life
at 1pm on Wednesday, March 17th
at Lynn Valley Full Gospel Church.

(Edit: Please park across the street in the mall parking)

Dave had a bigger heart than anyone I’ve ever met. He was twice the parent I’ll ever be, an amazing husband, a loving son and brother and a loyal friend to many. He touched the lives of so many people in his short life. We both knew God was planning something big but we just never would have imagined what. I trust wholeheartedly that he is at home with the Lord, he is healed and every question has been answered. It was a beautiful day, he was doing what he loved and he went quickly without pain. I count it a blessing.

Dave Evans: September 10, 1973 – March 6, 2010.

I love you forever.

If you’re new to my blog or have just stumbled upon it through a search engine, you can read all the entries about the death of my husband here.

23 thoughts on “The biggest goodbye

  1. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s passing but also very happy that you feel so supported and loved.
    I’m praying for you and your kids.

  2. Michelle,

    I am so sorry to hear about Dave. He was a great man and I was lucky to have met him. I will definitely see you on Wednesday to pay tribute to Dave.

    Sending you all my love,
    Rene

  3. I am so, so sorry for your loss. Dave sounds like a wonderful man, and this is a beautiful tribute to him. I am keeping you and your boys in my thoughts and prayers, and wishing you peace.
    .-= Amber´s last blog ..Bloggers are Real People =-.

  4. What a beautifully written post Michelle. I wish with all my heart that I could be there in person. I’ll be praying and thinking of you and keeping my ear to the ground as you keep walking.

    Much long distance love….C

  5. Michelle, I am so so sorry for your loss. I met Dave years ago in Campbell River through his dad and step mom. I was shocked to hear the news and have been thinking about it daily, I am 36 as well. My heart goes out to you and your boys and I am so glad he left you these treasured gifts.

  6. Michelle you are the strongest woman I know, and the best Mother, I see Mom’s everyday but you were always the coolest…letting Kai come to daycare with a pull-up on his head only because he wanted to. YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!

  7. Michelle, beautiful words – you can feel the love that you and he shared. Only you aren’t giving yourself enough credit in the parenting department, you do rock.

  8. Michelle,
    I love this post. I am truly so sorry for your and your son’s loss. Wanting you to know we are thinking of you and your family. xo

  9. Vancouver will not be the same without seeing Dave moving around all over the place. I used to see him all the time biking here and there, driving there and here. Pulling up to my office for an impromptu lunch at one of his favorite spots. My heart is heavy that you are gone but also filled with joy that you are in eternity with Jesus.

    Miss you buddy,

    Lorne
    .-= Lorne MacInnes´s last blog ..Vancouver Pick & Pack Services =-.

  10. Michelle, I haven’t had the time to check in on the happenings in N Vancouver since at least the Olympics. Therefore, I just saw this and I’d like to offer my deepest condolences and best wishes from Park City to you and your boys.
    I had been hoping to catch up with you on a professional basis, with the winter season winding down and all. Please drop me a line when you have the chance.
    .-= Eric Hoffman´s last blog ..Resetting Expectations =-.

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  12. I just came across your blog and enjoyed reading thru. I am sorry to hear of your loss and will keep you in our prayers. I look forward to continuing to read your blog and learn from you. Blessings.

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  14. Wow…Michelle I just happened to stumble across your website and well talk about divine intervention. I attend the circle of Moms in North Van and we have met there a few times. My prayers are with you. Please email me when you can…there are some things I would love to discuss with you and maybe help with.
    Amanda

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